Being a Hot Mess Makes Me a Better Leader. (Seriously!)
I’ve learned it’s completely possible to feel two opposite ways, sometimes in the exact same moment.
I’m a powerful and loving woman, CEO of my own company, kicking ass at all the things and loving living a life of freedom. I’m in a bitter argument with my husband and overextended juggling my 2 daughters schedules, wondering, “How long can I really hold it all together?”
Somehow, they’re both true. And I’ve learned to embrace it!
I never even try to hide this from you. I don’t ever want you to feel like you have to hide what feels messy, so I don’t hide my mess, either.
Why not claim and own what feels messy in order to get rid of the idea that anyone ever has it all together? (They don’t!) It’s much more powerful to not only give ourselves credit for the gifts and talents that do come naturally to us, but to build our business models around them.
If I hadn’t created a feminine business model that runs on a foundation built by my core values and curated the right support team I wouldn’t be able to lead the Mentor Masterclass Holiday Challenge Podcast today. Last night my adorable (and incredibly frustrating) 2 month old daughter absolutely refused to go to sleep, I’m exhausted. With my team’s support, I can focus on taking care of myself first and showing up for my business and clients, well-rested and openhearted.
I’m messy and life for me is a harmony of dark, deep tones and light bright chimes.
The truth is, I don’t second guess myself or my experiences, happy or hard. I am available to life and I am living fully. This is what it means to access your full range. My outer world is a reflection of my deepest dreams (that have come to reality) and a constant mirror of subconscious fear and divinely-orchestrated, deeply needed healing. I am a woman. I am a feminine leader. And so are you.
Do you feel this way, sister? If you are devoted to living a full life, and really showing up, you must learn to believe that your mess is your brilliance or you will forever be hiding your radiance.
I consciously choose to take radical responsibility for my choices. I choose to set clear intentions and engage in soulful practices to make decisions about what I want and who I am.
The holidays are the perfect time to shift out of autopilot and into FOCUS:
What does life look like behind the scenes of running a successful life coach training school for women who want to become influential leaders?
How do you really handle being a present mom and holding your clients accountable?
Do you have hot sex with your husband?
Do you really make that much money?
Do you really only work 25 hours a week?
How? How? How?
…I get these questions from my clients, colleagues and women all the time.
If you are navigating the fear and the exhilaration of these questions, what you’re really asking is: Do I really have what it takes to start and grow my dream business as a successful coach? Am I ready? Are these things really possible in the current state of our economy?
I want to experience the holidays with peace, joy and mindfulness. I’m here today to support you in preparing for the new year with a plan, the money and the momentum to start over with commitment and confidence.
In this short audio I have two questions for you that are going to help you shift into a deeper devotion with both hands on the wheel, now. (Make sure you listen all the way through to the end or you’ll miss “the diamond insight” moment).
It’s not too late to join us for this year’s Mentor Masterclass Holiday Challenge Podcast: 14 Days of Soulful Practices & Support From Successful Women Life Coaches to Help You Relax & Experience a Joyful, Connected, Holiday Season
Let’s get to know each other better over the next couple weeks. And I promise I’ll give you the real, raw version of life behind the scenes of a successful coaching practice (marriage and mommyhood, too)!
More importantly, you’ll discover exactly how to answer the one question that is really stressing you out: Do I have what it takes to create the kind of life I crave? I’ll give you a hint: it’s so much easier than you could ever imagine and you don’t need to hide your imperfections along the way.
If you are already enrolled in the Challenge, I’m deeply honored and excited to spend the next 2 weeks with you, sister.
Click here to get details from inside the Challenge. We started going through the Challenge together on December 2, with women and leaders from around the world who are committed to ease, magic and self-care now and into the new year. I would love to have you beside me on this journey, love.
All my love,
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